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Question: Gay and lesbians only: what is your opinion on bisexuality?

(Posted by: ♀♀Be yourself♀♀ on 2010-08-09 08:40:13)

Ok first of all I am a proud Lesbian and I have NOTHING against bisexuality my own girlfriend is bisexual and I'm the only girl she has ever been with. I have just noticed that in the LGBT community sometimes bisexuals are frowned upon as less. I think some of the times like me personally get a little jealous because when most of society looks at bisexuals they think that oh there's still a chance and all. So what is your opinion I have just been wondering this. I know my girlfriend gets majorly pissed like I do when people diss bisexuals.

Posted by: Bo0o0o on 2010-08-09, 08:43:41

I don't really care about who people sleep with... if some1 is interested in both, men and women... they are in all their rights to do so... who u sleep with doesn't make u who u are... a nice personality is much more interesting than whether a person sleeps with both men and women

Posted by: Cian on 2010-08-09, 08:45:46

I don't think of bisexuals any differently to how I think of anyone of any other sexual orientation. Tbh, 'round here at least they don't seem to get it any easier than gay people if they're open about it, if anything it seems to slightly harder since they've got hetero- and homosexuals doubting their sexualities. My boyfriend's bi and it annoys the hell out of him when people assume that he's gay but in denial.

Posted by: Cesar Villao on 2010-08-09, 08:47:44

I would never date a bi.. I think on gay guys most of the time they say I'm bi to try to hide their homosexuality or to look kinda str8(many gay guys are obssesed with str8 man).. Anyways girl or guy bi or lesb if u trust here there is nothing to worry bout.. Put that out of ur head it will just annoy u each time u think of it.. Go kiss ur babe :p

Posted by: Ash Kul on 2010-08-09, 08:49:08

I can't stand women who "claim " that they are bisexual in order to get attention from men. Sometimes, it's really hard to differentiate women who want attention for being bi and women who actually have feelings for both men and women. I accept real bisexuals because they are every part of the LGBT community as the rest of us. I do NOT accept fake bisexuals because they ask for attention from men AND the community at large: remember Madonna and Britney's kiss? That was NOT real; rather, it was staged for attention. I dislike the fact that society accepts bisexuals more because of fake bisexuals' reputations. I also dislike the fact that some people think bi's have a greater chance of "getting over " their attraction to the same sex. They won't. It cannot change. Thus, the only problem I have is a problem with society assuming that fake bisexuals are the real thing. Real bisexuals are probably pretty upset with this fact as well.

Posted by: Boɳɛs on 2010-08-09, 09:03:48

I remember back when I used to tell people I was bisexual, I would get very annoyed because although I was being open and honest about who I was, they would assume I was just saying that to get guys attention [when in fact, I have a strong preference for women]. The reason there is this problem is because of all the young straight chicks who pretend to be bisexual because they enjoy the reaction. Which is part of the reason I shy away from using that label for myself these days.

Posted by: Jaden on 2010-08-09, 09:08:58

Ok I'm gay and I'm not against bisexuality.my bf is bi so i understand.just like im attracted to male, he's attracted to both.but somewhere i kinda feel lost.like when i date a bi i dont really like his "straight side ".for example if 2moro it happens we break up or he cheats on me, i'd prefer he does that with another guy.cuz or else i'll feel i was dating some straight guy.and bi can also enjoy both sex.I kinda envy them too.it's like they can hide in the closet, get married and have kids without anyone doubting.whereas for L n G to do that it's not possible since they are not attracted to opposite sex! A bi can fake to be str8 but not a gay! so im kinda envious but anyways i dont think being bi is so great.it must have disadvantages too!

Posted by: newmetj on 2010-08-09, 09:18:24

As a lesbian who has dated a bi girl I find it scary. I believe that bisexual is a very valid sexual orientation but I personally have a problem with it.

Posted by: Punkezque on 2010-08-10, 07:55:40

I think anyone can believe in what they want, be attracted to whatever gender they are and love whoever they love without the need of anyone discriminating. —I once asked my catechism teacher why most Catholics are against the queer. He told me that they were against the queer because our god (God) didn't mean it as so, however, he told me that all we do — wars, marriages, etc., etc., was done under God's supervision and consent. No one in this world would be queer if god didn't allow it. It may disappoint him, but if there's anything God can do is forgive and forgive he does. Sorry, I'm not homosexual but I'm transsexual so... = 3