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Question: Gays and lesbians: do you intend to live with ur lesbian partner for lifetime?

(Posted by: cool breeze on 2010-01-28 07:03:32)

Or is it just that u hang out with them as long as it is possible n then get married to a guy. No offence, its just seeking ur opinions as some places are unfriendly to LGBTs. Im sorry, Bi's can also answer. Thanks! or do u just marry the opposite sex just for your fear of rejection by society.

Posted by: Diane on 2010-01-28, 07:39:20

Yes, I intend to live with my partner for life; we love each other dearly (25 years already; so far, so good..). And No, I have absolutely no interest in men at all, and certainly not in marrying one.

Posted by: gypsy girl on 2010-01-28, 07:33:23

Yeah i do. why would a lesbian marry a guy? lol. society is fcuked. just look, 100 years ago women had no rights. at the time, the very thought of it was taboo, and women who faught for their rights were oestrasized. now we live in a happy little society (in most places), where women have equal rights. the exact same thing happened with racism. nelson mandela spent 27 years of his life in jail, for fighting for the rights of his people. now all racial groups are equal. LGBT still have to get to the place where "society " excepts them. fcuked up isn't it? this thing we call society :)

Posted by: Lisa C on 2010-01-28, 07:57:51

Lesbians don't marry men, that's the whole point of being a lesbian, unless they married a man young, before they knew their true-self, usually that results in leaving a man for a women, the opposite of your theory. I am married to my wife and plan on being with her forever. No offence to men, but one of those dangley baby making things is not coming any place near me, ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have never been rejected for marrying a women and not a man. I love my wife and our relationship is 1000% more than 'hangging out'.

Posted by: Daniel - je veux ton amour on 2010-01-28, 08:03:12

We have made a personal committment to each other. we have been living together and sharing a life and raising a child for 16 yrs, now. we do not need marriage. we need no one's approval of our love and committment. after 16 yrs, we have proved to not only ourselves, but the world around us that we are in it for the LONG run.

Posted by: Yikes! on 2010-01-28, 08:23:48

I would like to think so, but who knows what is in store for my future.

Posted by: Chandler The Mermaid on 2010-01-28, 08:34:09

Well I can't speak for myself, but I'm pretty sure that thats what happens...

Posted by: LOVE_U on 2010-01-28, 08:34:48

Well its kinda norm here to get married just because of fear but i value my life way too much.. i have only got 83 or less yrs to live and im not screwing it up for anybody ..especially who has no business in my life. srry but i just can't live a fake life..no matter what consequences

Posted by: Riff Raff on 2010-01-28, 09:08:33

I dont think any lesbian would do that... if they already are with their partner and are happy and out, why would they give it up just to randomly marry a man? also, marriage is definitely not everyone's goal or something that must inevitably happen, as you make it seem to be in any case, i never plan on being with a man, in marriage or otherwise. -peace

Posted by: Animal on 2010-01-28, 09:26:04

Looking at it from now, yes I'm going to stay with her for ever... I'd never marry a guy just because of fear of rejection, only if I actually loved him/ wanted to spend my life with him (I'm bi) and I'm pretty sure my girlfriend has the same view. (:

Posted by: Randy on 2010-01-28, 13:19:04

Why stay with just one lesbian partner. You should be like a dinosaur and lickalattapuss.

Posted by: Italian Bi :) on 2010-01-28, 14:37:14

Yes I intend to live with whoever I fall in love with? What kind of question is this. I bite rejection.

Posted by: rose p on 2010-01-28, 16:08:00

I met a girl at he office where I first gained employment aged 18. We became very fond of each other and purchased a house. We exchanged vows at our house warming. My family were guests, Gwenneth's family did everything they could to make us miserable. They kept this up over the 42 years we were together and carried out a despicable act after Gwen's death. I was overseas at this time. Rose P.

Posted by: brummyneil on 2010-01-28, 23:38:24

I think some gay men and women used to get married to a partner of the opposite sex, to avoid hostile reactions from other people. In the case of gay men in the UK before 1970, it was sadly a criminal offence anyway. This would have encouraged the marriage to a woman, and the man would almost certainly have seeked casual sexual encounters with other men. However, that is not necessary anymore, well in the UK anyway. I have seen how society has become more accepting over the last 20 years, and most people are now indifferent to anothers sexual orientation. Law wise, the age of consent is now 16 for everyone, and gay people can enter in to civil partnerships (same legal and financial protection as marriage).

Posted by: badwolf_got_suspended on 2010-01-29, 09:57:11

Sorry your question does not make sense, your asking gay men and lesbians are you intending to live with your lesbian partner? how can a gay man live with a lesbian partner? anyway this gay man is going to be living with his partner and has done for the past 13 years and foresees living with him for the rest of our lives.